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September 30, 2007

Exchange Your Books

Do you have books you have read and you would like to swap for books you want to read? Well, BookMooch is the site for you. There is no cost to join. You simply list the books you are ready to give away and then request the books you would like to receive. BookMooch works on a points system. An excellent way to recycle books.

Here's a testimonial: Only minutes after creating a list of books I am willing to give away on Bookmooch, I already had enough points to request free books from others. Tomorrow, I am mailing two complete strangers some old books. And four strangers have promised to send me books I was planning to buy on Amazon. An excellent trade! Bookmooch works!"
- Solana Larsen (a BookMooch member)

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

Another Good Reason To Speak Up

Married women who keep silent during marital disputes have a greater chance of dying from heart disease and other conditions than women who speak their minds, new research shows.

But the same can't be said of married men who keep disagreements to themselves. They had the same life expectancy during the 10-year study as men who spoke out.

The research, which spanned from the mid-1980s to the mid-1990s, was the latest to show that how couples fight affects not only their relationship but their health.

Lead author Elaine A. Eaker, a Gaithersburg, Md., epidemiologist, said the message for women was clear. "When in conflict with your spouse, it helps to express yourself," she said.

Courtesy: LA Times

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

September 26, 2007

Great Advice

"Don't give up. Never surrender". When they tell you it can't be done this way, say, 'What about that way?' " Vision and hard work are the key to success. Find your passion and follow it.
Ted Rogers, CEO of Rogers.com

Amen to that.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen.com


September 25, 2007

How Chicks Can Get A Grip On Their Finances

two%20feet.jpgEarlier this month, I wrote about a great new book for young women called "ON MY OWN TWO FEET: A modern girl's guide to personal finance"! written by Harvard MBA and financial planing expert, Manisha Thakor. And now you can listen to a two part interview with Manisha, that Lisa Orrell of Chickonomics.com conducted. If you aren't sure whether you should buy the book, this gives you lots of free advice directly from the book. Here's the link to Part 1 and Part 2. While you are on her webpage, check out all the other amazing women she has interviewed. All of the interviews can be downloaded and listened to while you go on your 5 mile brisk walk, or spend hours exercising at the gym! A good way to exercise your body and mind!

chickonomics.jpg And talking of Lisa, who was a member of and very well-received speaker at WebGrrls Sacramento Chapter, the organization SacWomen is modeled after, she has a book out - The 2007 Chickonomics™ Guide to Millennial Professionals, and you can buy it from Amazon. More in a later post.
Way to go, Lisa. You are flying. And thank you for agreeing to be a speaker at an upcoming SacWomen event.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen.com


Urban Sacramento. It's For Real

Units at the new L Streets Lofts project at 18th and K are flying. The 12 penthouses valued from $750K-$1.2M are almost completely sold out. The largest unit is 2092 square feet with a price tag of $1.2M - giving a dollar per square foot price of $574. Is that the highest price paid downtown ever? If not, it must be for a condo.

Check out the website - it's slick and it gives a great idea of what the space will look like and how convenient the building is to everything fun to do in the new urban Sacramento.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

September 23, 2007

You're Welcome

radhakant%20Bajpai.jpg Print off this picture of Radhakant Bajpai, who is listed in the Guinness Book of World Records for having the longest ear hair - more than 5".

Give the picture to your husband and tell him that's why you nag him to trim those unsightly hairs from his nose and ears and he should be very grateful to you.

Of course, he might respond that he could have been in the Guinness Book of World Records which would have allowed him to quit his job and live a life of luxury.

When you have finished laughing, hand him the nose hair trimmer!

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

September 21, 2007

Ask Patty

Today I get an email from my car dealership. It read in part:

We wanted to update you on some exciting news! We are changing the way cars and trucks are sold! We have recently become an Ask Patty Certified Female Friendly dealership! We understand that car buying can be challenging, especially for woman. Ask Patty, the premier automotive advice site for women, has certified our dealership and service center. We have made the commitment to provide a better buying experience for all consumers. Our partnership with Ask Patty represents an increased commitment to the female car buyer to provide a safe and comfortable buying experience.
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I add the bold for emphasis...
We understand that car buying can be challenging, ESPECIALLY FOR WOMEN.
Actually I kind of enjoy the whole craziness - scribbled numbers, taking it to the boss, the boss declines, I walk out, they come after me, I demand to see the invoice, I quote everything I learned from Edmunds about the dealer markup, etc. etc. The last time I bought a car, I got multiple quotes online from different dealerships and watched them underbid each other - no hassle to me at all. I, for sure, don't want to buy a car tagged as the poor woman who isn't up to the challenge.

So off I went to the AskPatty website expecting to see Stepford women, and was pleasantly surprised to see a post about Saudi women not being able to drive and how that impacts their lives in terms of working. Further research showed, however, that the founder is male. Although the President, who wrote the blog, is a woman.

But then I went back to my first thought. Why do women need this extra kind of a gentle auto buying process? And wow was I surprised when I researched and found this on the AutoChannel:

The national survey of 1,000 female car buyers finds that an astonishing 77 percent of women plan to bring a man along for their next vehicle purchase - a slight increase from the 75 percent who indicated the same in Capital One's 2004 survey.

While 85 percent of women feel that they were treated fairly during their most recent car purchase, the study findings suggest that women are most likely to bring men to make their purchases as a means to better-manage the financial aspects of the transaction. (Nearly seven out of 10 women feel they are at a greater disadvantage then men when it comes to buying a car.) In fact, 70 percent of women continue to find the financial aspects of the car-buying process the most difficult, indicating that their greatest challenge is obtaining a good deal on price.

"It's troubling to see that women still do not feel empowered to manage the car-buying process on their own. It's important that women realize that confidence and purchasing power requires education - not a male companion. Rather than turning to a man for support, women should instead take advantage of the variety of educational resources available to them," said Diana Don Colby, director of financial education at leading financial services company Capital One.

I couldn't agree more. Go get smart. Visit Edmunds. Get independent. Women are definitely smart enough to figure out how to get the best price and best financing on a car. Why are we doing this? Do we see car buying as the man's territory and we don't want to damage his ego?

Gillian Parrillo
The Sacramento Executive

September 19, 2007

Women On The Move Event

Two day event Date: September 28, 2007 Registration: 5:30 to 6:00pm Speaker/Food: 6:00 to 8:00pm Focus: Networking

Date: September 29, 2007
Time: 8:00am to 5:00pm
Focus: Seminar

Network with Like Minded Women

Doubletree Hotel Sacramento
2001 Point West Way
Sacramento, CA 95815
Phone: 916-929-8855


Our excellent panel of speakers who will cover powerful topics including:

real estate investing
improving health and wellness
asset protection
information marketing
conducting business on the internet
importance of networking

Our keynote speaker is Sharon Lechter, co-author of the best selling book Rich Dad Poor Dad and other Rich Dad series books. Sharon is also one of the founders of the Rich Dad company and she has a wealth of valuable information to share with the audience.

This spectacular Women On The Move event for women who want to achieve new levels of success. Regardless of where you are in your professional or personal life, you will receive real world information that can help you achieve your goals for a healthy, happy, and prosperous future!

The Women On The Move is also the launching ground for a Greater Sacramento Women Build, a Habitat for Humanity International Program that encourages women and girls to have fun and make a difference by building homes and communities.

For more details

If any SacWomen attends, please send me a note and let me know how it was so we can track it for next year.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen


Eight Places Every Women Should Go

100%20places.jpgAuthor Stephanie Elizondo Griest hit the literary scene in 2004 with her critically acclaimed coming-of-age travel memoir, Around the Bloc: My Life in Moscow, Beijing, and Havana. Her newest book, 100 Places Every Woman Should Go, is a fresh and insightful look at destinations for the female journey.

Here are eight of her favorite picks for women wanderers:

1. For inspiration and enlightenment: Hawaii Volcanoes National Park
2. For indulgence: Lingerie shopping in Paris
3. For purification and beautification: The banyas of Moscow and St. Petersburg
4. To celebrate powerful women and their places in history: Frida Kahlo's Mexico
5. To celebrate struggle and renewal: Arts and voodoo festivals in Benin
6. For womanly affirmation: Belly dancing in San Francisco, New York, or Austin
7. For all-around wonder: Mongolia
8. Just for the fun of it: The Bahamian island of Eleuthera

For more detail on each destination, visit Rolf Pott's blog Traveling Light

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

September 18, 2007

An Event Worth Attending: An Evening With The Stars

AN EVENING WITH THE STARS
A CELEBRATION OF EDUCATIONAL EXCELLENCE IN SCIENCE, TECHNOLOGY AND THE ARTS
October 6, 2007, 5 P.M. to 8 P.M.
Tickets: $100 each
FEATURING
Five Star Catering by the Supper Club
Dancing Under the Stars to Live Music, Stellar Comedy Entertainment, and More...
Live Auction Starring Local Media Personalities
Meet Educators Who Have Challenged Students to “Reach for the Stars”

The San Juan Education Foundation
More info

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

Band of Sisters: American Women At War In Iraq

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The non-fiction book "Band of Sisters: American Women at War in Iraq" is truly an amazing chronicle that finally gives us access to a more complete history of the Iraq War. Gripping testimonies from our women warriors. This powerful account of women on the battlefield gives us a different understanding of what comradeship is all about! This could very well be about your sister, wife, mother, daughter or your girlfriend. She is out there risking her life and soul as part of our new military force.

"What price freedom?" The experiences of these women give us a totally different and profound look at that question. This book is destined to become a military classic! There is power in these stories that must be shared. The American Authors Association gives this book its highest book rating of FIVE STARS and its recommendation as a must read book!

War has no gender and neither does courage or death. This book explores the role of women warriors on the battlefields in Iraq. It also explores the meaning of what comradeship is all about. It is an amazing tale of sisters, mothers, daughters and women of all backgrounds who risked life and soul to fight alongside their brothers. A must read!

Bombs and bullets are equal opportunity killers--it makes no distinction to what gender the warrior is. Our military women in Iraq chronicle a story that needed to be told. Our nation needs to listen and acknowledge what they have done and continue doing. They are a sisterhood of warriors like no nation has ever known the likes of! It is a tale of terror, courage, fear, loyalty, and survival. A must read book by all Americans!


Amazon review by W. H. McDonald Jr. of Elk Grove, CA

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

Back On The Career Track

Returning to the workforce can be a daunting job for full-time moms. It requires reigniting old contacts (including co-workers who were once their junior), marketing themselves strategically, and battling the diminished self-image that plagues most women who have been off the career track--whether it's been two, six, or 15 years. Carol Fishman Cohen and Vivian Steir Rabin understand, because they've been there. And as women who have successfully relaunched their careers, they know it can be done with careful planning, strategizing, and creativity. Now, in BACK ON THE CAREER TRACK, back%20on%20the%20career%20track.jpg they offer a prescriptive, seven-step program that covers such topics as building confidence, assessing career options, updating job skills, preparing for interviews, getting the family on board, networking, and much more.

"Finally! A smart, practical, inspiring guide for moms looking to get back to paid work--without losing their minds." --Leslie Morgan Steiner, editor of Mommy Wars and columnist, www.washingtonpost.com

Hey, I did it somehow. Divorced with a 1 year old and a 2 year old, I returned to work part-time first, and eventually returned to a career that allowed me to be one of the first generation of women to break through the glass ceiling. And my kids survived beautifully!

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

September 17, 2007

Sally Field: You Had Every Right

What on earth has this country come to when a women and a mother makes the following statement and it gets censored from the broadcast. “If mothers ruled the world, there wouldn’t be any god-damned wars in the first place." That's what happened to Emmy winner Sally Field last night as she gave her acceptance speech at the Emmy Awards Ceremony.

Watch the uncensored version yourself....and demand that media that shows the most despicable TV programs - Temptation Island anyone? - might want to uphold First Amendment free speech rights.

I too believe that having equal participation of women and mothers and grandmothers would quickly slow the rush to war.

Gillian Parrillo
SaWomen

Sacramento Heatwave Dance Team Auditions

Come on SacWomen, I am sure we could win a spot or two!

The ABA Sacramento Heatwave have announced their final dance team auditions seeking the best and hottest dancers to help showcase and represent one of the league's most exciting teams. Enthusiasm, experience and character plus dance skills are some of what it takes to be a part of this dance team, always among the league's most exciting. If you think you have what it takes, come out out!

Auditions are Saturday, September 22nd from noon-8pm, Sunday, September 23rd from noon-5pm. For details, email info@heatwaves.com or call 559 779 0100 or visit the website.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

September 15, 2007

Women Driving Motocycle Sales

woman%20motorcycle.jpg As a child, Genevieve Schmitt would cover her ears when a giant motorcycle with loud pipes blasted past. Today that big-twin thunder is music to her ears, and she's the one making the noise.

After decades of riding on the backs of bikes often driven by men, women in growing numbers are sliding to the front of the saddle and driving themselves, a movement Schmitt fosters as president of Women Riders Now, based in Livingston, Mont.

Women account for at least 10 percent of motorcyclists in the U.S. today, and they're the fastest-growing segment in the graying $9.7 billion motorcycle industry.

Although the motorcycle industry is still fairly strong — manufacturers sold 1.1 million bikes in 2005, the most recent year for which figures are available — growth has slowed from the boom between 1995 and 2000, according to the Motorcycle Industry Council.

In addition, the average age of motorcyclists continues to increase, from 32 in 1990 to 41 today, said Jessica Prokup, a spokeswoman for the industry council.

About 15 percent of Kawasaki's motorcycle sales are to women, the largest percentage in the industry, said Sean Alexander, a company spokesman. Harley-Davidson is second, with 12 percent.

"Baby boomers are reaching an age where they are moving away from motorcycle purchases," Alexander said. "Someone has to replace them over the next 15 years."

Women are getting plenty of encouragement from manufacturers. They accounted for about $970 million in motorcycle sales in 2005.

Harley-Davidson, for example, has established a Web site for women, sells clothing and gear for women, and sponsors "garage parties" at Harley-Davidson dealers to introduce women to motorcycling.

Once the noisy macho ride of biker toughs and still the industry's most popular cruiser, Harley-Davidsons are relatively low to the ground and can be handled by shorter people of both sexes.

Courtesy: Dallas Morning News

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

September 14, 2007

College Enrollment For Women Surges

Greg Toppo and Anthony DeBarros of USA Today reported on Wednesday that "women feed the jump in college enrollment."

According to Toppo and DeBarros, "for every four men enrolled in graduate school in 2006, there were nearly six women." And in undergraduate school, the numbers are almost the same. Women last spring earned 58.5% of the bachelor's degrees.

Hey, I think my new book titled "The Fattening Up and Dumbing Down of America" has a chapter called "And the Guys are Dumbing It Down The Most!"

Pierre Cutler

Don't Work In A Vacuum

As many as 78% of the U.S.' more than 26 million companies are one-person businesses, the Census Bureau found, but being a solo small-business owner doesn't mean having to work in a vacuum, an expert said. Some tips for getting valuable input include building a board of advisers, staying in touch with old contacts and getting involved in organizations and associations.
(Source: Fast Company)

Not to be too self-promoting, but attending SacWomen events sounds like a perfect way to counter the vacuum problem. Check the top of the home page of SacWomen to see the details of our meeting on 10/23.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

September 11, 2007

And You Thought They Really Meant It!

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John Seiter and Eric Dutson of Utah State University, recruited two hairstylists who, after cutting their customer's hair, randomly pulled one of three pennies from their pocket. This was to ensure that customers were not treated differently during the haircut itself.

If the penny was marked with a 1, they gave the customer no compliment. If it was marked with a 2 they told the customer: "Your hair looks terrific". If it was marked with a 3 they said: "Any hairstyle would look good on you." The amount tipped by each customer was then recorded by the hairstylist.

To be able to compare across differently priced haircuts, the tips were converted into a percentage of the total price for the haircut. Here are the average tip percentages in each condition:
"Your hair looks terrific." - 12.83% tip
"Any hairstyle would look good on you." - 12.51% tip
No compliment - 9.14% tip

As you can see the average tip percentages are one third higher in the compliment conditions than the no compliment condition. Over the months and years this can add up to a substantial difference.

This is a good practical demonstration that a simple method of ingratiation - a compliment - can actually have a persuasive, and easily measurable effect on people. Indeed, this finding could well be applicable across a wide range of service-related jobs.

Courtesy of PsyBlog

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

The Body Shop Founder Dies

anita%20roddick.jpg Anita Roddick, the founder of The Body Shop died suddenly of a massive brain hemmorhage. She was 64. She opened her first store in the south of England in 1976 with no plans to expand.

But over the next 26 years, she grew the first store into more than 2000 in 50 countries. Anita Roddick was green before anyone know anything about green. She introduced us to refilling containers, she employed poor women around the world to make her products, she ensured there was no animal testing of her products and that the ingredients were natural.

In 2002 she stepped down from actively running the company, acting as a consultant and in 2003 she was awarded the title of Dame by Queen Elizabeth.

She was certainly an inspiration to me and many other women who were trying to forge their way while attempting to raise half-way normal children!

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

Marketing Wine For Women

From: The Wino Club

I don't normally get bothered but this has been gnawing at me for some time. Please just stick with this little rant.

Let's start with the facts. Did you know that 60% of the wine sold in the United States is to women? So if we start there, logic dictates that the wine market is already on target with its products. If women are already buying a good deal of the wine, why would marketers suddenly change their market to better accommodate them? We already like wine.

Why are the marketing companies shifting their focus? We don't want to be pandered to. We want to learn and grow into sophisticated wine drinkers. We DON'T want to buy Italian wines labeled 'Mommy's Time Out' and we don't all want lower alcohol roses. I have girlfriends who wouldn't touch a white wine or rose if their lives depended on it (unless it was going to go to waste and that's a totally different conversation). And other friends who love the heat that comes from a high alcohol Zin (yours truly included).

Hello?

We're being sold special PMS chocolates (ok this one makes sense, never mind) low taste, I mean low carb, beer and femine rum (yes it exists - pink label and all). So if it's pink we'll buy it? Novelties. Do we really want our wine to be a novelty too?

I think that as women develop as wine drinkers, and we are seeing so many more women enter in to the male dominated profession of wine directors and makers, we don't want the experience cheapened. How can we be taken seriously as winos if we're interested in too sweet shallow gunk with the tasting depth of a SoCal rain storm?

So my plea is this. Leave male verses female out of wine and concentrate on making better wine.

Completely agree...just give us great wine. I was at a wine dinner last night with a bunch of women and realize how much I have learned from drinking great wine on a regular basis. Learning through osmosis and enjoying it at the same time...that works!


Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen.com

September 10, 2007

Executive Women's Golf Association of Sacramento

golf%20for%20women.jpg Check out this Sacramento chapter of a national organization and all of the events and benefits provided for Executive Women Golfers in Sacramento.

Here's an upcoming event:

Teal Bend – “Swing Fore the Girls”;
In conjuction with the First Tee of Greater Sacramento
Saturday, September 22, 2007;
Limited to 48 Golfers!!!
Modified Shotgun Start @ 1:00 p.m.,
followed by barbeque dinner sponsored by River City Bank;
Members: $60.00 Non Members: $70.00;
Registration & Payment Due Date: September 12, 2007.

Check out their website for more details.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

September 9, 2007

On My Own Two Feet

two%20feet.jpgBeing in control of your finances isn't always easy, but the benefits are enormous. And yet, we receive no formal training to take on this life-altering job. Now you can read "On My Own Two Feet: A Modern Girl's Guide to Personal Finance.

Authors Manisha Thakor and Sharon Kedar, who both have MBA's from Harvard and are Certified Financial Analysts, have written this book especially for young women (and yes, it works for guys too!).

Topics are relevant to those who are trying to save for a downpayment on a house or looking ahead to ensure a comfortable retirement. The book covers:

* How much of your income to save
* How to avoid the perils of credit card debt
* How to create a budget you can live with (and still have fun!)
* How to invest wisely using a powerful, keep-it-simple plan
* How to deal with real life situations - such as figuring out how much home or car you can afford & how to handle money when you couple up with that someone special
Here are some of the reviews:
“On My Own Two Feet is a must-read for all women who want to own their own destiny. In clear, penetrating prose, Thakor and Kedar guide their readers along the journey to financial security and personal freedom. Whether you are going to run a corporation, a household, or your own extraordinary life, this book is indispensable.”
- Nancy F. Koehn: James E. Robison Professor of Business Administration, Harvard Business School

“A real page turner - and that's not something typically said about personal finance books! On My Own Two Feet is chock full of powerful, straightforward advice about how to take charge of your financial future. Trust me, you can't afford to miss this book.”
- Denise Brosseau: Co-Founder, Forum for Women Entrepreneurs

“On My Own Two Feet is the financial equivalent of the basic black dress and red handbag in every woman’s closet. Choose it early and use it often for maximum positive effects. I mentor many young women, and this book will be one of my recommended financial tools as they build for future professional and personal dreams.”
- Betsy Heller Cohen: Vice President & Futurist, Nestlé Purina Petcare Company

Women having their own financial stablility allows them to have so many more choices in life. And making decisions early is key.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen


September 8, 2007

Characteristics of Women Business Owners

Women business owners are prepared to face risk: most (66%) are willing to take above average or substantial risks for business investments.

Women and men business owners have different management styles. Women emphasize relationship building as well as fact gathering and are more likely to consult with experts, employees, and fellow business owners.

Women owners of firms with $1 million or more in revenue are more likely to belong to formal business organizations, associations or networks than other women business owners (81% vs. 61%).

From Key Facts About Women-Owned Businesses

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

September 7, 2007

Should Oprah Back Obama?

Or more particulary, should Oprah be backing a candidate for U.S. President? I applaud her finding a candidate she feels passionate about and speaking out about her reasons for backing that candidate. oprah%20and%20obama.jpg

Will she sway voters? I think she definitely will. She has a big reach and a very, very loyal following who respect her choices.

Will she have a bigger effect that other 'stars' have had in the past? I think she definitely will. As stated above, she has lots of pull.

Is it fair? I heard that on one of the evening political shows tonight? Fair? It's definitely fairer than dirty tricks and swiftboating and all of those other awful things that go on to win elections.

Of course, it would be better still if Oprah stepped up and took an active role in the new administration. Can you see Oprah as Secretary of State? I would relish every second. She would do a fabulous job. She has great instincts, a great inner moral compass, a great ability to know and provide the right 'product' to her demographic, and big smarts. Yes, definitely, Secretary of State Winfrey. No, I like Secretary of State Oprah...has a certain ring to it!

Let's hear from you. What do you think? Can you think of another 'star' that would have as much sway for the rest of the candidates? I think that Rush backing a candidate would probably have as much sway within his demographic as Oprah does within hers. Although I think hers might cross political parties, but not genders, unlike Rush who is definitely an icon to those on the right, both men and women.

Wow, the never-ending 2008 campaign got interesting for a second.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen.com

Update: 9/10 - Oprah hosted her fundraising event for Obama this past weekend raising an estimated $3M for his campaign fund. I liked this quote from a blog that Varsha Rao wrote about the event:

Later Pam Weiss, a Silicon Valley mother of three and first-time fundraiser attendee noted, "She's so real, she captured the audience." Noting the large turnout of women and Oprah's inspiring endorsement, Ms. Weiss noted, "the women at this event and others like it could become a powerful force in building a word-of-mouth campaign for Barack Obama.
Note: I added the emphasis, but I like the idea of women being a powerful force in a presidential campaign.

September 6, 2007

The Must List

The 10 items on Tim Gunn's essential shopping list for women:

Basic black dress
Trench coat
Classic dress pants
Skirt
Blazer
Jean
Classic white shirt
Day dress
Cashmere sweater
A comfortable alternative to a sweatsuit
Bonus: an indulgent trendy item

Courtesy: The Washington Post

You can catch Tim Gunn's show, Guide to Style, tonight on Bravo. Or you can check out his book, Tim Gunn: A Guide to Quality, Taste and Style.

I am going upstairs right now to take everything in my bulging closet that is not on the above list to the charity shop! Imagine the feeling of freedom to walk in your closet and know where everything is and almost no choices to be made about what you wear. If only I could.....

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

29 Healthiest Foods

I came across this list the other day. Some of the claims are astounding - "tomatoes may cut the risk of bladder, stomach and colon cancers in half if eaten daily." tomatoes.jpg I am reading the list to Pierre, who is fixing dinner, when we realize that we are about to eat several of the featured items. Salmon, figs, tomatoes, raspberries. We vowed to start trying to get more of them into our daily diet. I even had hope that Pierre would agree to try apricots, raisins and melon - foods he hates. But when I brought it up, he responded that there was no need to eat everything on the list! I definitely want to remember to buy bok choy on my next trip to the grocery store - I really like it but tend to forget about it when I am planning meals.

Check out the list and introduce more healthy produce into your diets. After all, you live in the Central Valley, no excuses about access to fabulous, fresh produce.

FRUITS

01. Apricots
The Power: Beta-carotene, which helps prevent free-radical damage and protect the eyes. The body also turns beta-carotene into vitamin A, which may help ward off some cancers, especially of the skin. One apricot has 17 calories, 0 fat, 1 gram of fiber. Snacks on them dried, or if you prefer fresh, buy when still firm; once they soften, they lose nutrients.

02. Avocados
The Power: Oleic acid, an unsaturated fat that helps lower overall cholesterol and raise levels of HDL, plus a good dose of fiber. One slice has 81 calories, 8 grams of fat and 3 grams of fiber. Try a few slices instead of mayonnaise to dress up your next burger.

03. Raspberries
The Power: Ellagic acid, which helps stall cancer-cell growth. These berries are also packed with vitamin C and are high in fiber, which helps prevent high cholesterol and heart disease. A cup has only 60 calories, 1 gram of fat and 8 grams of fiber. Top plain low-fat yogurt or oatmeal (another high fiber food) with fresh berries.

04. Mango
The Power: A medium mango packs 57mg of vitamin C, almost your whole-recommended daily dose. This antioxidant helps prevent arthritis and boosts wound healing and your immune system. Mangoes also boast more than 8,000 IU of vitamin A (as beta-carotene). One mango has 135 calories, 1 gram of fat and 4 grams of fiber. Cut on up and serve it over leafy greens. Bonus: Your salad will taste like dessert!

05. Cantaloupe
The Power: Vitamin C (117mg in half a melon, almost twice the recommended daily dose) and beta-carotene - both powerful antioxidants that help protect cells from free-radical damage. Plus, half a melon has 853mg of potassium - almost twice as much as a banana, which helps lower blood pressure. Half a melon has 97 calories, 1 gram of fat and 2 grams of fiber. Cut into cubes and freeze, then blend into an icy smoothie.

06. Cranberry Juice
The Power: Helps fight bladder infections by preventing harmful bacteria from growing. A cup has 144 calories, 0 grams of fat and 0 fiber. Buy 100 percent juice concentrate and use it to spice up your daily H20 without adding sugar.

07. Tomato
The Power: Lycopene, one of the strongest carotenoids, acts as an antioxidant. Research shows that tomatoes may cut the risk of bladder, stomach and colon cancers in half if eaten daily. A tomato has 26 calories, 0 fat and 1 gram of fiber. Drizzle fresh slices with olive oil, because lycopene is best absorbed when eaten with a little fat.

08. Raisins
The Power: These little gems are a great source of iron, which helps the blood transport oxygen and which many women are short on. A half-cup has 218 calories, 0 fat and 3 grams of fiber. Sprinkle raisins on your morning oatmeal or bran cereal - women, consider this especially during your period.

09. Figs
The Power: A good source of potassium and fiber, figs also contain vitamin B6, which is responsible for producing mood-boosting serotonin, lowering cholesterol and preventing water retention. The Pill depletes B6, so if you use this method of birth control, make sure to get extra B6 in your diet. One fig has 37 to 48 calories, 0 fat and 2 grams of fiber. (Cookie lovers - fig bars have around 56 calories, 1 gram of fat and 1 gram of fiber per cookie). Fresh figs are delicious simmered alongside a pork tenderloin and the dried variety make a great portable gym snack.

10. Lemons/Limes
The Power: Limonene, furocoumarins and vitamin C, all of which help prevent cancer. A wedge has 2 calories, 0 fat and 0 fiber. Buy a few of each and squeeze over salads, fish, beans and vegetables for fat free flavor.


VEGETABLES

11. Onions The Power: Quercetin is one of the most powerful flavonoids (natural plant antioxidants). Studies show it helps protect against cancer. A cup (chopped) has 61 calories, 0 fat and 3 grams of fiber. Chop onions for the maximum phytonutrient boost, or if you hate to cry, roast them with a little olive oil and serve with rice or other vegetables.

12. Artichokes
The Power: These odd-looking vegetables contain silymarin, an antioxidant that helps prevent skin cancer, plus fiber to help control cholesterol. One medium artichoke has 60 calories, 0 fat and 7 grams of fiber. Steam over boiling water for 30 to 40 minutes. Squeeze lemon juice on top, then pluck the leaves off with your fingers and use your teeth to scrape off the rich-tasting skin. When you get to the heart, you have found the best part!

13. Ginger
The Power: Gingerols may help reduce queasiness; other compounds may help ward off migraines and arthritis pain by blocking inflammation-causing prostaglandins. A teaspoon of fresh gingerroot has only 1 calorie, 0 fat and 0 fiber. Peel the tough brown skin and slice or grate into a stir-fry.

14. Broccoli
The Power: Indole-3-carbinol and sulforaphane, which help protect against breast cancer. Broccoli also has lots of vitamin C and beta-carotene. One cup (chopped) has 25 calories, 0 fat and 3 grams of fiber. Don't overcook broccoli - instead, microwave or steam lightly to preserve phytonutrients. Squeeze fresh lemon on top for a zesty and taste, added nutrients and some vitamin C.

15. Spinach
The Power: Lutein and zeaxanthin, carotenoids that help fend off macular degeneration, a major cause of blindness in older people. Plus, studies show this green fountain of youth may help reverse some signs of aging. One cup has 7 calories, 0 fat and 1 gram of fiber. Add raw leaves to a salad or sauté with a little olive oil and garlic.

16. Bok Choy (Chinese cabbage)
The Power: Brassinin, which some research suggests may help prevent breast tumors, plus indoles and isothiocyanates, which lower levels of estrogen, make this vegetable a double-barreled weapon against breast cancer. A cup will also give you 158mg of calcium (16 percent of your daily recommended requirement) to help beat osteoporosis. A cup (cooked) has 20 calories, 0 fat and 3 grams of fiber. Find it in your grocer's produce section or an Asian market. Slice the greens and juicy white stalks, then saute like spinach or toss into a stir-fry just before serving.

17. Squash (Butternut, Pumpkin, Acorn)
The Power: Winter squash has huge amounts of vitamin C and beta-carotene, which may help protect against endometrial cancer. One cup (cooked) has 80 calories, 1 gram of fat and 6 grams of fiber. Cut on in half, scoop out the seeds and bake or microwave until soft, then dust with cinnamon.

18. Watercress and Arugula
The Power: Phenethyl isothiocyanate, which, along with beta-carotene and vitamins C and E, may help keep cancer cells at bay. One cup has around 4 calories, 0 fat and 1 gram of fiber. Do not cook these leafy greens; instead, use them to garnish a sandwich or add a pungent, peppery taste to salad.

19. Garlic
The Power: The sulfur compounds that give garlic its pungent flavor can also lower LDL ("bad") cholesterol, lower blood pressure and even reduce your risk of stomach and colon cancer. A clove has 4 calories, 0 fat and 0 fiber. Bake a whole head for 15 to 20 minutes, until soft and sweet and spread on bread instead of butter.

GRAINS/BEANS/NUTS

20. Quinoa
The Power: A half cup of cooked quinoa has 5 grams of protein, more than any other grain, plus iron, riboflavin and magnesium. A half-cup has 318 calories, 5 grams of fat and 5 grams of fiber. Add to soup for a protein boost. Rinse first, or it will taste bitter.

21. Wheat Germ
The Power: A tablespoon gives you about 7 percent of your daily magnesium, which helps prevent muscle cramps; it is also a good source of vitamin E. One tablespoon has 27 calories, 1 gram of fat and 1 gram of fiber. Sprinkle some over yogurt, fruit or cereal.

22. Lentils
The Power: Isoflavones, which may inhibit estrogen-promoted breast cancers, plus fiber for heart health and an impressive 9 grams of protein per half cup. A half-cup (cooked) has 115 calories, 0 fat and 8 grams of fiber. Isoflavones hold up through processing, so buy lentils canned, dried or already in soup. Take them to work, and you will have a protein packed lunch.

23. Peanuts
The Power: Studies show that peanuts or other nuts (which contain mostly unsaturated "good" fat) can lower your heart-disease risk by over 20 percent. One ounce has 166 calories, 14 grams of fat and 2 grams of fiber. Keep a packet in your briefcase, gym bag or purse for a protein-packed post-workout nosh or an afternoon pick me up that will satisfy you until supper, or chop a few into a stir-fry for a Thai accent. See also: The Nut Case

24. Pinto Beans
The Power: A half cup has more than 25 percent of your daily requirement of folate, which helps protect against heart disease and reduces the risk of birth defects. A half-cup (canned) has 103 calories, 1 gram of fat and 6 grams of fiber. Drain a can, rinse and toss into a pot of vegetarian chili.

Low fat Yogurt
25. The Power: Bacteria in active-culture yogurt helps prevent yeast infections; calcium strengthens bones. A cup has 155 calories, 4 grams of fat, 0 grams of fiber. Get the plain kind and mix in your own fruit to keep calories and sugar down. If you are lactose intolerant, never fear - yogurt should not bother your tummy.

26. Skim Milk
The Power: Riboflavin (a.k.a. vitamin B2) is important for good vision and along with vitamin A might help improve eczema and allergies. Plus, you get calcium and vitamin D, too. One cup has 86 calories, 0 fat and 0 fiber. If you are used to high fat milk, don't go cold turkey; instead, mix the two together at first. Trust this fact: In a week or two you won't miss it!

SEAFOOD

27. Shellfish (Clams, Mussels)
The Power: Vitamin B12 to support nerve and brain function, plus iron and hard-to-get minerals like magnesium and potassium. Three ounces has 126 to 146 calories, 2 to 4 grams of fat and 0 fiber. Try a bowl of tomato-based (and low fat) Manhattan clam chowder.

28. Salmon
The Power: Cold-water fish like salmon, mackerel and tuna are the best sources of omega-3 fatty acids, which help reduce the risk of cardiac disease. A 3-ounce portion (cooked) has 127 calories, 4 grams of fat, 0 fiber. Brush fillets with ginger-soy marinade and grill or broil until fish flakes easily with a fork.

29. Crab
The Power: A great source of vitamin B12 and immunity-boosting zinc. A 3-ounce portion has 84 calories, 1 gram of fat, 0 fiber. The "crab" in sushi is usually made from fish; buy it canned instead and make your own crab cakes.

Courtesy of Belly Bites

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

September 5, 2007

Don't Forget Your Sisters

A friend sent this to me today. I had seen another version a few months ago and remember being touched by the contents. I met my friend when I went with two other Board Members to interview a potential new Board Member. We bonded that lunchtime. She did join the Board eventually but left after only a few meetings, not getting the point. But we stayed friends. She joined a book club I had started. And when I moved last summer and was drowning in the process, she would arrive with a canvas bag packed with a delicious lunch and calmly get me back on track. I didn't realize how great a friend she was until I moved. good%20friends.jpg


But back to the message below. It expresses so well the need for women friends and how, as we get older, the more important they become. I think it was in the book, "This Is Not the Life I Ordered," This Is Not the Life I Ordered: 50 Ways to Keep Your Head Above Water When Life Keeps Dragging You Down (a wonderful book that shows the true value that close, long-lasting friendships between women brings) that I 'got' the fact that women nurture other women better than men nurture women. No knock on men, but it's a fact.

I know that I can't wait to get together with my book club each month. And for me one of the most enjoyable parts is that it is made up of women ranging in age from the early 20's to 60;. And no, we hardly ever get to discuss the book because we are so busy catching up on each other's lives and just being there for each other.

So, here we go:

A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.

'Don't forget your Sisters,' she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. 'They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.' 'Remember that 'Sisters' means ALL the women...your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too. 'You'll need other women. Women always do.'

‘What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman thought. ‘Haven't I just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!'

But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life.

After more than 50 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned:

THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don't do what they're supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.
BUT.........
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you.
A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.

When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end.

Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you...Or come in and carry you out.
Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life!

The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWoman

September 3, 2007

Look Who's Guarding The Crown Jewels

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Moira Cameron, 42, becomes the first female Beefeater, beating out 5 men for the job. Look for her when you visit the Tower of London!

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen.com

SacWomen Gets Mention in SacBee Within 12 Days of Rollout

SacWomen announced its launch on August 20th. Yesterday, September 2nd, SacWomen was featured in The Blog Watch a weekly column in the Sacramento Bee that prints a selection from 3 regional blogs from the previous week.

The same day, someone bought 3 books through the SacWomen page and made $1.43 for SacWomen. Add that to the .87 made through advertising click-throughs, and we are over $2!

Last week, two of our sponsors from Sacramento Executive agreed to also sponsor SacWomen - both women, although to be fair, I didn't ask the guy sponsors yet! I'd like to make this an all women funded venture.

We are on a roll!

Tomorrow I finalize our meeting place for our October networking event.

I watch with amazement as it all happens and I try to add one new Web 2.0 skill each day. And when it works, I am amazed all over again.

And to think not so long ago - maybe 10 years, I sat in a conference room with the senior executives of our company and debated whether to allow our employees access to the Internet, which we regarded as a grand distraction from their real job!

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen.com


September 2, 2007

Young Women In Large Cities Earn More Than Men

Young women in New York and several of the nation's other largest cities who work full time have forged ahead of men in wages, according to an analysis of recent census data.

The shift has occurred in New York since 2000 and even earlier in Los Angeles, Dallas and a few other cities.

Economists consider it striking because the wage gap between men and women nationally has narrowed more slowly and has even widened in recent years among one part of that group: college-educated women in their 20s. But in New York, young college-educated women's wages as a percentage of men's rose slightly between 2000 and 2005.

The analysis was prepared by Andrew A. Beveridge, a demographer at Queens College, who first reported his findings in Gotham Gazette, published online by the Citizens Union Foundation. It shows that women of all educational levels from 21 to 30 living in New York City and working full time made 117 percent of men's wages, and even more in Dallas, 120 percent. Nationwide, that group of women made much less: 89 percent of the average full-time pay for men..........

''Citified college-women are more likely to be nonmarried and childless, compared with their suburban sisters, so they can and do devote themselves to their careers,'' said Andrew Hacker, a Queens College sociologist and the author of Mismatch : The Growing Gulf Between Women and Men

Source: New York Times

This has all kinds of ramifications for the future. Will women start marrying in lesser numbers? Will those that do marry and have children decide to have their less-educated, lower-earning spouse raise the children? How will this affect these children?

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

Rally To Protest the Inadequate Medical Treatment For California Prisoners

United for No Injustice, Oppression, or Neglect UNION RALLY

An Urgent Call for Compassion and Common Sense in Corrections
Prisoners are People Not Political Pawns - Epidemics Are Spreading Everywhere

Friday, September 7, 2007
10 a.m. until we drop. Come early and help out

NORTH SIDE, Sacramento Capitol Building
L Street and llth Street Side
Sacramento, California

Stirring Speechettes by:

Theresa Vaughn, Mother of Timothy Souders, a 21 year-old mentally ill prisoner whose death by medical neglect was featured twice on 60 Minutes this year. (July)

Rev. B. Cayenne Bird, UNION Director will discuss status of 28 wrongful death lawsuits in progress filed by families and the work that is needed for the future.

Speakers on Sentencing Commission, Prison Cap and Overcrowding and their relevance to the Crisis

California Nurses Will Address the MRSA epidemic, Medical & Mental Health Care Issues and Vulnerability Nora Weber (Mother of Mark Grangetto) will describe her experience with the courts in seeking remedy for her son. UNION family members of prisoners in crisis will describe their own crisis when a loved one became ill, injured or died in custody.

Medical worker will address methods of prevention

Legislative Sponsor will speak about the critical, relevant bills in progress You are needed to attend and bring people as only crowds influence the legislators - individuals do not count or the problems wouldn't exist. You are needed. Bring ice water, protest signs

More info

A crowd is needed, everyone who works in a prison or has a loved one incarcerated needs to be present to stand up for themselves. The Governor and media sees crowds generated by groups only - individuals do not count The prisoners are dying and there is only you to stand up for them, caring starts with you.

UNION, P.O. Box 340371, Sacramento, Ca. 95834, Subscribe to the Daily Newsletter so you can help to win reform

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When we care more about the treatment our animals get than prisoners, something is very wrong. If we are going to lock up prisoners in vastly higher numbers than anywhere else (see chart) let's at least provide them with adequate medical care.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen


September 1, 2007

Most Powerful Women In The World

Forbes has released its latest list of the 100 Most Powerful Women. Topping the list is German Chancellor, Angela Merkel. angela%20merkel.jpg Yes, the woman that our president thought deserved a back rub! Second is Wu Yi, the Vice Premier of China followed by Ho Ching, Chief Executive of Singapore's state owned investment company, Temasek. She is also the wife of Singapore's Prime Minister. Condaleeza Rice is in fourth position, followed by Indra Nooyi, head of PepsiCo and Sonia Gandhi, President of the Indian National Congress.

Surprises this year - the domination of Asian women. For example, as noted above, 4 of the top 6 are Asian. And 29 of the top 100 are in politics. Maybe this is how women will wield equal power - through the ballot box.

Check out the list.

Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen

Women And Doctors

Lately I have been hanging out in too many doctors' offices. And the more I do, the more disgusted I get. So I started talking to my friends about their trips to the doctor's, and they are disgusted too. doctor%20with%20patient.jpg

It seems that every time we go with a complaint, we are treated as if we are lucky, at our age, to feel as good as we do. And no one seems to be able to diagnose what is wrong with us. It's all blustery talk and promises of complete cures and then months later, and thousands of dollars later, you still have what you had when you showed up the first time.

Over the past eight months, I have seen 3 different orthopedic guys, had multiple cortisone shots in various parts of my anatomy, with promises of more to come in different parts of my anatomy, tried hundreds of hours of physical therapy, tens of hours of chiropractics, and my original complaint - a hip that hurts - is still my original complaint. Accupuncture, anyone?

But now, because they can't fix it, I am told that my CAT scan is better than age appropriate. Translation: At your age, you are lucky you can walk without a cane.

My friend, who is a senior academic, has been in and out of the hospital with stomach problems. When no one could figure out what was wrong with her, her doctor told her she had a shrivelled uterus and ovaries. Good grief. I guess she is supposed to be grateful to be able to walk on this planet unaided.

I don't want to have to go to one more doctor and plead my case. I am not a hypochondric, I don't doctor shop, I don't want any more steroids, I just want you to fix my hip pain.

Next week, it's off to the allergist to figure out why I keep getting this itchy rash all over my body. I am probably allergic to bad doctors.


Gillian Parrillo
SacWomen